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Time For A Change

Business has been very slow recently and I had seriously considered putting Loulibelle yoga on the backburner whilst I went and worked for someone else.
 
As much as I love the work I do with Loulibelle Yoga, and I love working for myself, my family and I still have to eat and put a roof over our heads. My husband and I really want to buy our own home but we both need to have a regular, decent wage coming in to do this. So how do I balance doing what I love with making money.
 
I think my dilemma has come about because when I have no classes I start to doubt what I do.

Appearances Can Be Deceptive

I'm really excited.

Those of you that occasionally look at theLoulibelle Yogawebsite, or follow us on Facebook will have seen my recent posts about my collaboration withMonica Mitoli
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My husband first introduced me to Monica about 8 months ago. He had spoken a little about her when he came home from his Friday nights training at the Training Studio,
but only to say that she was an Italian Ballerina with the most incredible posture he had ever seen.

Loulibelle Yoga had been struggling to find a home in which to base our classes for well over 12 months, all the spaces I looked at although lovely were either not big enough, unavailable at the times and days that suited us or just too noisy.

Cutting Back!

So I blogged about cutting back on my commitments and how I'd decided what was important and then....
Well today I went along to pick our allotment. We live in a flat, so no garden and I really miss being able to potter, grow herbs and veg, and just be able to be outside in my own space enjoying sunshine and fresh air. I walked to the allotments and met with 2 other families also signing up for the day.
I was going to get 2nd pick of the 3 available plots, so we walked around the whole site
which covers almost 23 acres, with 310 plots, the average plot size being 300sq yds.

Write Your Own Book

Let me paint a scenario for you...
You've with a group of friends, well they're acquaintances really, you like them, they're fun to be with and chat to, but the only time you socialise with them is in the pub or Christmas and New Year. 
Someone asks you what you do for a living or asks you about where your son goes to school, and then the fun begins.
It's at moments like this that I realise that my family and I are really not on the same page as everyone else, in fact if we're reading the same book I'd be very surprised.

Focus is the Key

I was speaking to my husband during our Sunday morning lie-in and debating what we wanted from life, what we had achieved so far and wanted to achieve in the future and what, if anything was holding us back from achieving the goals we had. And here was our conclusion.
You see, despite knowing that if I trust the Universe and if I am clear in my intentions to achieve what I aim for then it will appear, I still have moments where I question why something isn't happening.
For example, my business Loulibelle Yoga.

Frustration...is it necessary?

Today I had a class booked
with a very enthusiastic Mum. She called in the week and was really keen on coming to a class and for me to then teach a group of her friends 
at a venue loca
l to them.
I arrived at The Studio early to st up and make sure that it felt as welcoming to tiny ones as possible. This isn't really difficult. The Studio is a large hall, filled with plants and birds and with an amazing atmosphere of peace and happiness.
10am came and went 10.30 came and went, no sign of my new clients.

Should It Cost Money to Gain Enlightenment?

I had an interesting lesson in Spirituality last week.

I went to London to the Mind, Body, Spirit Festival. To be honest I was unsure what to expect but went with an open mind. I admit to being slightly nervous as I was visiting the festival by myself, however I was interested to see who I would meet and what new experiences I could have that would develop my Spirituality.

I wandered around the festival, and the first thing that happened was people tried to sell me things, from hair clips to pictures.

"Suffering is An Attitude of How You Meet Your Experience" Mooji

Take control, don't be lead by blind emotion, stop look at the situation and decide DOES THIS REALLY CONCERN ME?

Have you ever had one of those days where someone tells you something, that makes you reaction with emotion, it sends your head spinning and a million scenarios  play out all ending in disaster

I had such a day recently. I have long been someone who steps back from other peoples lives, my rule is "It's your life, it's your right to do what you want with it and if life throws you a bum curve based on your decisions then it's you're right to make those mistakes".

Out With the New In With the Old

Last night I realised I'm getting old. I came home from a night out very disgruntled and a little unhappy.

Now before you jump up and down, saying "No, no, of course you're not getting old", just hear me out, because it's amazing what a nights sleep can do for your vision on the world.

I don't feel like getting old is a bad thing. Yes I'm a little sad that I'm no longer with the hip and beautiful ones out partying at the weekend, but to be honest I was never confident enough to be out in the group of young pretty things that party all weekend.

If Life Gives You Lemons

I shouldn't complain. Life has been good recently.Things have been going my way, and then...

I woke up today, tired, like I've been all week, but it's that time of the month again, so no surprise there.

I woke up knowing that all the plans I'd made for the weekend had gone, due to my sons father failing to have him as arranged.

But still I woke with good intentions and with the positive thought of ignoring the date, Friday 13th May.

I woke up, cooked breakfast, blogged, did the things I needed to do.

Same Story Different Ages

This week I've taught a lovely age range of children, it still amazes me how quickly children develop physically from the age of eighteen months upwards.

On Wednesday I had a class of beautiful eight year old girls. Initially I had a slight moment of panic when I realised that there was no electricity for my Ipod speakers and I was going to have to lead the class without the accompaniment of music.

Music is an integral part of my sessions usually and a brilliant asset when it comes to calming down or livening up a class of up to 30 children.

A Lot To Be Thankful For

After my relaxation day on Saturday, where I did small but significant things just for me, Life has suddenly begun to feel easier.

On Monday although tired, I decided that if I sorted out all the things I'd been putting off I'd feel a lot better. So I called the Bank about some compensation they owed me, managed to fit in a telephone conversation with my Mum who I've not managed to talk to for weeks and finally sorted out my Tax Return.

Whilst organising all this a local venue called me regarding my enquiry for room hire.

Self Doubt, Self Belief

Some days I wake up and wonder if I'm going to make today a successful day. My idea of success can differ from day to day, depending on the type of sleep I've had.

If I wake up in a positive frame of mind I find that from the minute my foot hits the bedroom floor I'm on a mission to fill my day with as many activities as possible. However if I've had a lousy nights sleep, I can wake up wanting the world to Go Away.

Saturday morning was a morning in point. I slept really badly and woke up grumpy and unhappy.

My Obsession With Oprah

Yesterday I spent a good few minutes looking for reading material, and deciding that I need short, sharp bursts of information at the moment as my head is full of too much life, I decided a magazine would be the way to go.

I looked at work related magazines and bought one, and then thought I know lets see what's happening in the Oprah Magazine. Much to the hilarity of my family and friends I have been obsessed with Oprah since I was a young Mum of 23, and I would avidly watch her show on the cable channels.

The Universe Works in Mysterious Ways

Yesterday I posted a Status update on a Social Networking Site, hoping for a little support or some advise, be careful what you wish comes to mind. My question was about socialising my 10 year old who is Home Schooled, I seem to have been chasing my tail recently trying to find groups and activities he can join.


The first response I got was :-

"You could just send him to school like the rest of his peers, you asked for this comment, sorry if it's not what you want to hear, none of us live in an ideal world, but nevertheless it is the world we live in, we can still pass on our ideals whilst conforming to an imperfect norm

Food Glorious Food

Since we got married in December our household has revolved around good food, beer, and wine. We spent lots of lovely evenings as a family shooting the breeze with a bottle of beer and a curry, but all those lovely bottles and delicious curries have resulted in my husband and I having to loosen our belts quite a few notches.

I decided after the May Bank Holiday I would get back into my habit of eating raw at least once a day. A couple of Christmas's ago my daughters bought me a book calledAuthentic Woman: A Guide to Beauty, Body and Bliss by Leslie Kenton.

The Bee Story


My lesson this week for my 5 to 11 year olds is about the Bee who helped with a case of hayfever.

Props for this class are very easy, a beautiful flower for each child to colour in
and a lovely bee for them to have on their fingers and buzz from flower to flower.
The final prop is a jar of local honey. The story is based ontheory that eating local honey can help combat hayfever.

I always do a mini plan of positions and a basic story for classes, like the one below. They don't have to be too detailed as I like the children to come up with ideas of what could be happening next in the story.

Time to regroup

If your household is anything like ours you'll have spent this glorious Bank Holiday Weekend with friends indulging in food, alcohol and laughs.

I love long lazy weekends with loads of chatter and the chance to catch up, I'm not so keen on the sluggish, tired feeling it gives my body.

This is when it's time to Regroup, drink more water and start to show your body the respect it deserves. Over the weekend I have done literally little more exercise than strolling with my husband in the Spring sunshine, or lifting my right arm to drink my Guinness.

Sometimes Things Just Fall Into Place

Have you ever had one of those days?

I'm not talking about the days where everything feels like an effort and life seems like hard work. I'm talking about the days when one event slots neatly into another event.

It happened for me today. I had an enquiry for a class. At first I felt a little panic, I've held off booking a venue for my classes as lots of people like home sessions. I like to hold classes close to where people live so they have as little disruption to their day by travelling for miles and struggling for parking.

Slow and Steady

So I teach Yoga. So I'm studying Yoga. So I should know better?!Well you would think so!!

Apparently not. A week ago I was happily attending my third Yoga class of the week, where I study atHerbs and Yoga, I was really enjoying my first full week without aches or pains, (when you first start a class that differs from your usual the teacher will get you using muscles you didn't know you had, and boy does my teacher do that.)

I am usually very good at ensuring that my alignment is right, that when bending my knees they don't pass over my toes putting undue pressure on the joint.

Generation of Women

Whilst I sat in the April sunshine on Sunday chatting to my Mother-in-Law I discovered an interesting fact- I come from a very privileged position. I grew up in an almost exclusively female household with a Maternal Grandmother and Mother who bestowed on me the knowledge that "Womens Work", so frowned upon in todays society, is "skilled" work and knowledge that we as women should revere and pass to the next generation.

My Mother-in-Law grew up in a small family surrounded by male role models, she moved to England from Northern Ireland and had her first child away from support.

So what do we wear to a Loulibelle Yoga Class?


Ever been to the gym an noticed the beautiful people in the latest sports gear. Tight lycra leggings and teeny weeny tank tops?

Well at Loulibelle Yoga you won't find anyone dressed like this. My Baby and Mum, and Toddler and Mum classes are about fun, inspiration and relaxation. If you are going to run, jump and rough and tumble with the liveliest toddler do you really want movement restricting clothing or something that is going to make you hotter than you're already going to get? I know I don't.

Exciting New Developments

Boing! Boing! Boing!

Just got back from a really exciting meeting with Marco fromCloggies Toysin Market Harborough.

Cloggiesare a lovely boutique toy store stocking tradition and unique toys. Marco has come up with a great idea of opening up the space above the store for Babies, Toddler and Mums. It's the perfect venue for a small intimate Loulibelle Yoga session, and with the cafe next door there's ample tea and cakes on hand for an after class chat :)

I've been spending this afternoon looking at local Mum and Tots groups and trying to see what's available, which seems to be very little.

So 40 kids...chaos??

So forty kids...chaos??

I did the two sessions back to back. The first session was five to seven year olds, and the second with purely eight year olds. They were very very curious. Some had heard of yoga because their Mums do it, some wanted to know about specific poses.

We started with a warm up and they all joined in enthusiastically, wiggling their bottoms, standing on one leg and clapping. Then we followed a classic Loulibelle Yoga class, we lay in bed, awoke to  the cockerel and stretched.

Loulibelle and the Cat a Class of 40

So today I'm due to teach a class of 40 4 to 11 year olds. A challenge in itself, how do you engage such a huge age gap?

I've decided my best strategy is to split the class between 4 to 7's and 8 to 11's. The 4 to 7's will get the classic Loulibelle Yoga class, a story with yoga poses and classic meditation at the end. The 8 to 11 year olds are going to have an exercise class.

Todays story is Loulibelle and the Cat, simple props, train tickets, seed and butterflies. I'm going to use the same poses in the exercise class, with a little aerobic fun thrown in.